5 Questions to Ask a Nursery on Your First Visit

Choosing the right nursery is a big decision - here’s how to make sure it’s the right fit for your family.

Visiting a nursery for the first time can feel overwhelming. You want to ask all the right questions, but you might not know where to start, and that’s ok - we’ve got you!

We believe parents should feel informed, reassured and confident in their decision, and we’re always happy to chat about how we do things.

Here are 5 key questions to ask on any nursery visit:

  1. What is your approach to learning and development?
    You want to know how the nursery supports your child’s growth, not just through activities, but through values, relationships and individualised support.

  2. What does a typical day look like?
    This gives you a feel for the structure and balance of the day, including meals, naps, outdoor play and quiet time.

  3. How do you communicate with parents?
    Look for daily updates, photos, progress reports and easy ways to stay in touch.

  4. How do you support emotional wellbeing and behaviour?
    You’ll want to know how they handle tears, separation anxiety, behaviour challenges.

  5. What makes your nursery unique?
    Every setting has its own ethos, vibe and strengths. This is your chance to see if it aligns with your family values. 

Bring your child with you - they’ll tell you a lot
We always recommended bringing your little one along when you visit a nursery. Watch how they respond to the environment, the staff and the space. You might find your decision becomes clearer just by seeing them explore and interact. 

Sometimes, it’s not just about what you feel, it’s what they show you through their body language, confidence or even the smile on their face. Children are often the best judges of what feels right.

Don’t forget - it’s about the feeling too!
Alongside your questions, trust your instincts. Did the setting feel warm and welcoming? Were the staff friendly and approachable? Did the children look happy and engaged?

You’re not just choosing a childcare provider, you’re choosing a community that will support your child (and you) through some of their most important early years.